Even in the best relationship, you can sometimes feel alone.  Not all relationships start out one-sided, but a lot end this way.  You can be a in a relationship, but yet you feel like you are single.

Here are some signs that your dating yourself:

  1. Things aren’t the same between you anymore. You don’t know what happened… but all of a sudden you don’t share that mutual connection you once had. And now you feel completely alone.
  2. Your conversations are purely transactional and have no depth.  It’s the same blah, blah conversation every single day. She/he doesn’t talk about making long term goals together, or what the future looks like for you both as a couple, etc.
  3. You’re the one making most of the plans to spend quality time together and go out of your way to show the other person how much she/he means to you.
  4. She/he never seems to have the time and when they do make time it always seems like they are watching their watch.
  5. Your partner doesn’t care about the same things you care about.  You don’t have any similar interests or hobbies.
  6. Your partner simply prefers calling up her/his friends and spending time with them.
  7. You’re constantly the one trying to talk about the relationship needs that aren’t being met. She/he doesn’t want to address any problems, because she/he doesn’t care enough.
  8. Instead of talking through disagreements, she/he totally shuts down. You don’t feel like anything is ever truly worked through.
  9. You’re trying to hard to show your partner how much you love them and annoy them in the process. Your girlfriend or boyfriend would rather be anywhere but with you.


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