If You Really Love Someone, You’ll Never Stop Fighting To Make It Work

Nothing in life comes easy.. including LOVE!  The only love worth having is the one worth fighting for — because anything short of that just isn’t love. Jumping ship when the waters get rough causes the entire relationship to drown.

If your depending on the following statement, “If it is meant to be, it will be” you’re in for a big surprise.  The uncensored truth of the matter is BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS WORK. Yes, I said it… it’s WORK!  You have to exert actual energy into your relationship and find tangible solutions when problems or disagreements arise. This includes confessing your mistakes, acknowledging your most deepest darkest hidden flaws and taking ownership for our own shortcomings. Love also requires immense compromise, flexibility, and forgiveness from both parties.

Love is sacrifice and a perpetual give and take. Love is learning to put someone else’s needs and desires above your own: selflessly and willingly. Love is admitting that you’re wrong; you screwed up big time, but that you endeavor to make it work because in your heart you know that love is also unfailingly rewarding, patient, kind, and true. Love is unconditional.

“Love is worth fighting for, always!”